The most important thing in
communication is hearing what isn't said.
– Peter Drucker
A worker
asked for a pay raise and got this note back from his supervisor: "Because
of the fluctuation predisposition of your position's productive capacity as
juxtaposed to standard norms, it would be momentarily injudicious to advocate
your requested increment." The puzzled worker went to the supervisor and
said, "Is this is about my pay raise I don't get?” "That's right,"
said the supervisor.
As a leader
one of the most important skills you will develop is communication.
Unfortunately, it’s becoming one of the hardest skills to develop. The reasons
for this vary. On the bright side, technology has increased our ability to
communicate like never before. On the down side, conversational and social
skills have waned because we prefer to text or send an email- thus avoiding
actual human interaction.
Communicating
with clarity is important for you as a leader. Those you lead don’t need to be
like the man in the story above trying to figure out what you are saying. Here
are a few simple guidelines to keep in mind going forward.
Keep it simple
Avoid as
much as possible all the fancy corporate jargon. Keep it simple. Your goal here
is not to impress people with your vocabulary but to inspire your team with
your words and actions.
Keep it pithy
Don’t waste
your people’s time with never ending meetings and chasing proverbial rabbits.
The longer things drag out the more your people tune out. Have an objective,
stick to it, and get going.
Be transparent
Nothing will
endear your people to you more than to by being open and honest about where you
are personally, where things are as an organization, and by reminding your
people of the vision and the role they play in fulfilling it.
Be inclusive
Clarity is
essential throughout your organization. As the leader you need to make sure
everyone knows your heart and that you have their backs, and that they have all
the knowledge and information they need to be successful.
Know when to speak, and speak on
purpose
When
communicating with your people it is important that you have a reason and
purpose behind it. What you say and how you say it is important. What a team
members “hears” and interprets may be very different from said and meant.
Before you speak, think it through and put yourself in their shoes.
Know when to shut up
I’ve saved
the most important for last. Clarity comes to us best not when we are speaking
but when we are listening. The most powerful communication skill you have is
your silence and your open mind. It is when you listen to your people that you have
your greatest moments of clarity. Someone once said, “God gave you two ears and
one mouth for a reason.” That’s great advice.
Communicating
with clarity is essential to your success as a leader. Use these guidelines as
starting points and build upon them. Your success as a leader depends upon it.
© 2016 Doug
Dickerson
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