The size of your success is measured
by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle
disappointment along the way. - Robert
Kiyosaki
I am a
lifelong golf fan. I came up in the era of Nicklaus, Palmer, Player, Trevino,
Floyd, to name a few. Golf, in the words of Arnold Palmer is, “Deceptively
simple and endlessly complicated; it satisfies the soul and frustrates the
intellect. It is at the same time rewarding and maddening - and it is without a
doubt the greatest game mankind has ever invented.” And it’s why I love the
game.
Last Sunday
at The Masters was both exciting and gut-wrenching to watch at the same time.
The masterful play of Jordan Spieth on the front nine was truly remarkable (rewarding)-then
came the back nine (maddening). The coronation of Spieth winning a second green
jacket was placed on hold as the unthinkable happened on the 12th.
Life has a
way of throwing us curves and what we thought was a certainty turns out to be
anything but that. As leaders we face our share of circumstances when things
don’t go as planned and we have to find a new way forward.
Golf has a
way of teaching us about life and leadership. The Masters proved it. Here are a
few takeaways.
It’s not whether you win or lose;
it’s how you play the game
On the first
nine Jordan Spieth put on a clinic. He closed out the front nine with four
birdies in a row. He seemed unstoppable. The front nine revealed a confidence
seldom seen in a 22-year old golfer at the top of his game. The back nine
revealed his character in adversity.
Adversity
has a way of introducing us to ourselves. In post- round interviews Spieth
showed a maturity that made the game proud and left us with little doubt that
while that loss will sting, he will be back.
Leadership
Takeaway: Character is not developed in adversity it is revealed.
Even the best make mistakes
Ranked at
number 2 in the world, it was not a fluke that Spieth was in the final pairing
last Sunday. Even after the infamous “meltdown” he still had an opportunity to
come back and win. And while it wasn’t meant to be this year, it would be
foolish to count him out next year or anytime in the foreseeable future.
Hang around
in leadership long enough and you will get acquainted with bad shots. You will
understand the disappointment of a target you did not reach. It happens to the
best of leaders. Mistakes are the pavement on the road to success. It’s not a
matter of if you will fail; but how.
Leadership
Takeaway: You are not defined by your mistakes you are defined by your response
to mistakes.
Not everything goes according to plan
A lot of
variables are taken into consideration when playing a round of golf. The pros
rely on their caddies to help them with yardage to the pin, wind conditions,
whether to lay up or go for the long shot, how fast/slow the greens are
playing, etc. Nothing is left to chance. But after every consideration is taken
into account it all comes down to the golfer to execute.
As a leader
you can have a strategy for your business- expectations for sales, customer
service, and employee engagement. But despite your best plans and strategies
things may not go according to script. You have to make adjustments and play
the hand you are dealt. It’s what Spieth had to do and as a leader you will do
the same.
Leadership
Takeaway: One bad swing can change your game plan. Be flexible and confident in
knowing that you will recover.
Keep swinging
I can only
imagine the disappointment that was going through Spieth’s mind on the 12th
hole. Moments earlier it had almost seemed like a mere formality that had he
continued to play even at par, he would go on to win the tournament.
One of the
greatest challenges you will have in leadership is not how to stay strong when
times are good, but how to keep swinging when you feel like walking away. Sound
familiar? Yet, what Spieth demonstrated, and what we all have to do, is to keep
swinging in spite of the disappointment.
Leadership
Takeway: Disappoint and setbacks will challenge you as a leader. No matter what
comes your way – never give up and keep swinging!
© 2016 Doug
Dickerson
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