We do not remember days, we remember
moments. - Cesare
Pavese
It was in
the early 1970’s and I was in my early teens. On a hot summer day a friend and
I walked up to the local 7 Eleven to buy some cigarettes. I know, I know-- but
back in that day it was not illegal to buy or sell them.
We were out
in the big field behind our homes sitting in a grass hut we had made enjoying
the Marlboro’s- when suddenly I felt a swift foot in my back. I turned in time
to see flames engulfing the hot dry hut we had built. I got out just in time.
Our futile
efforts to stomp out the fire led us to make the only logical decision we could
make in our moment of desperation - run!
My friend
ran one way, I another. It was not part of any strategic plan- it’s just the way
it happened. As I ran with all my might
I recall seeing the blur that was my house. I kept running. The local fire station that sat next to the 7
Eleven responded with one of their trucks. Our paths crossed briefly as the
truck rolled past me. Fortunately, the fire was contained and no injury to property or life
ensued.
Life
experiences have a way of helping us put leadership lessons in perspective.
Here are my three takeaway from the day I quit smoking cold turkey.
With the right motivation you can do
anything!
My
motivation to stop smoking was brought about not by a fancy ad campaign or
regulations that came in later years. It was much more personal. If the
motivation is right you can do anything you set your heart and mind to. You can
achieve any goal or dream you desire if you don’t give up. You just have to
find that tipping point and the right motivation.
If you play with fire you can get
burned
The matches
and cigarettes on a hot summer day were the ingredients for disaster. As leaders;
often it’s the little things that trip us up. Little things like your attitude
that will make you or break you. It’s the way you relate to and treat people
that make a difference. If you are a jerk – you are playing with fire and
eventually you’ll get burned.
Not everyone who kicks you in your
backside is your enemy
As I sat in
that grass hut oblivious to the danger around me, it was a hard kick in the
back that got me out in time. Your growth as a leader is up to you. Not
everyone who slaps you on the back is necessarily your friend and not everyone
who kicks you in the back is your enemy. As you grow as a leader you will learn
to figure it out.
In
hindsight, I'm glad I quit smoking cold turkey.
© 2015 Doug
Dickerson
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