“The problem that we
have with a victim mentality is that we forget to see the blessings of the day.
Because of this, our spirit is poisoned instead of nourished.” - Steve
Maraboli
As a leader there are few things more important than
creating a strong and healthy organizational culture for your employees to
thrive in. It’s up to you as the leader to be proactive and take the lead in
developing the organizational climate you wish to have.
Unfortunately, many harmful behaviors threaten the fabric of
the culture that you are trying to create. These behaviors include bullying,
manipulation, office politics, etc., and they each pose a real threat. But
there is one in particular that we would like to address – so here is our
question: Is a victim mentality preventing accountability in your organization?
No doubt there are accountability measures in place within
your organization that serve to track performance and measure each person’s
progress. Accountability measures are healthy and necessary and keep everyone
focused on shared goals and outcomes.
But what happens when a team member perpetuates a victim
mentality? What does it sounds like? Here are five common claims that will give
you some insight.
It’s not fair
The “it’s not fair” mantra is perhaps the oldest one in the
book. It can be used when an employee feels that his or her work has gone
unnoticed, was passed over for a raise or promotion, or has made an improper
comparison of the value of their work in relation to a colleague. Whether
justified or not, this feeling of being on the receiving end of unfair
treatment is a source of concern. As a leader it is up to you to address it.
Accountability makes sense when each person on the team has a clear picture of
the value they bring to the organization. Don’t let an employee’s feelings of
being slighted go unanswered. When they
see and understand their importance they will not see accountability as a
threat.
Finger pointing
Finger pointing is so destructive because it’s so easy. It’s
the first gesture of the least accountable. Yet sadly, the blame game is alive
and well. But clear expectations of employee performance along with useful
accountability guidelines will go a long way toward bringing an end to finger
pointing and fault-finding. As a leader, you must take ownership of these
expectations. When employees can build a collaborative team environment around
the idea that “we are in this together”, it can unleash everything that is good
and creative about your people. Finger pointing now gives way to mutual
accountability, and fault-finding takes a back seat to an “I’ve got your back”
mentality. Which would you rather have?
It’s Not My Job
When employees have the mindset that they are only
responsible for specific, outlined tasks, it is easy for them to dodge
accountability with the simple statement, ‘it’s not my job’. The most effective
organizations are the ones where everyone has the opportunity to make an
impact. As a leader, you must create a culture of collaboration and teamwork
where everyone feels they have a vested interest in the outcome. Let employees
see you roll up your sleeves and do what needs to be done regardless of your
formal job description. Achieve accountability by replacing the mindset of
‘it’s not my job’ with ‘I benefit when everyone participates as a whole’.
Feeling Powerless
Employees will not take accountability for decisions or
tasks which they feel they have no control over. As a leader, you must provide
employees with pertinent information and encourage them to ask questions. Then,
give them the power to make decisions and design how their work gets done. Accountability will increase dramatically
when employees are given power and control over their own work.
Denying
Responsibility
Employees often deny responsibility out of fear or
frustration. They fear the repercussions for failure or they are frustrated by
a lack of clear expectations and control over their work. As a leader, you must
create a team mentality. Help employees understand that when one team member
fails to carry their weight, they drag down the performance of the whole team.
Inspire in them shared values and clearly communicate expectations. Teach
problem solving and creative conflict resolution skills throughout your
organization. Increase accountability by removing the fear of failure and
building employee confidence by giving them a sense of control.
As a leader, it is your responsibility to develop a culture
that encourages accountability and discourages a victim mentality. If your
employees willingly accept accountability for their decisions and actions, your
organizational effectiveness will skyrocket.
© 2015 Doug Dickerson & Elizabeth Stincelli
*Elizabeth Stincelli is passionate about recognizing and
inspiring the leader in each of us. She is the CEO of Stincelli Advisors where
she focuses on helping organizations engage employees and improve
organizational culture. Elizabeth holds a Doctor of Management degree with an
emphasis on organizational leadership. Learn more about Elizabeth by visiting
her website, stincelliadvisors.com You can contact her by email at
stincelliadvisors@gmail.com.
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