One of the greatest discoveries a man
makes, one of the great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he
couldn’t do. – Henry
Ford
The story is
told of two explorers who were on a jungle safari when suddenly a ferocious lion
jumped in front of them. “Keep calm” the first man whispered. “Remember what we
read in that book on wild animals? If you stand perfectly still and look the
lion in the eye, he will turn and run.” “Sure,” replied his companion. “You’ve
read the book, and I’ve read the book. But has the lion read the book?”
What’s your
phobia? For some it’s a fear of heights, or flying. For others it may be riding
in an elevator, speaking in public, or Friday the 13th. For me, it’s
spiders. I can handle most anything you throw my way, but for some reason
spiders creep me out.
You will
face many challenges as a leader. One the best discoveries to make on your
leadership journey is that some of the things you were afraid of were, in fact,
nothing to be afraid of at all. It’s as you grow and gain confidence in your
talents and abilities that you can look back on some of your unfounded fears
and smile. So what fears can actually make you a better leader? Here are three
for your consideration.
The fear of thinking too big - This fear is rooted in the “what if?”
mentality.
Donald Trump
said, “I like thinking big. If you’re going to be thinking anything, you may as
well think big.” That’s the rub with some leaders. They had rather play it safe
with small thinking. After all, small thinking equals small risks. But big
thinking requires big risks and big sacrifices. And did I mention the issue of
pride? After all, as the logic goes, how would it look if I failed?
Let me ask
you the question that’s been around for a while. What would you attempt if you
knew that you could not fail? Leaders who think big had rather fail at
attempting something big than succeed at something small. You overcome this fear
of thinking too big with hard work and dedication. Don’t let the fear of
thinking too big hold you back. Embrace your big ideas, goals, and dreams and
see where they take you.
The fear of overestimating your
potential - This
fear is rooted in a “who me? mentality.
This is a
fear that causes you to think too little of your gifts, talents, and leadership
abilities. If you ever buy-in to the notion that you are not meant to be where
you are, doing what you are doing, and possessing the skills to be there, you
will never reach your full potential.
Winston
Churchill said, “Continuous effort, not strength or intelligence- is the key to
unlocking our potential.” Your potential is always fluid as you continue to
grow. Your level of potential today is not the same as it was five years ago
simply based on your growth. The bar will be higher five years out as your
growth pattern continues. The key here is to have faith in your abilities and
to never entertain negative thoughts or attitudes that would hold you back.
Your potential will be unlimited when you take the limits off your potential.
The fear of empowering others – This fear is rooted in the “why
them?” mentality.
Every smart
leader understands the impact and importance of empowered teams. Empowered
teams are more productive, create positive energy, and build morale in ways you
can’t do when individuals are isolated from one another. But a fear of
empowering others can undercut that culture and progress.
The fear of
empowering others likely has less to do with your team than it does with your
own insecurities or fear of not being in control. Whatever the reason; it’s a
hindrance to your progress and success. But when you shed that fear and believe
in your people, you can unleash your team to do what they were meant to do.
Empowering others begins as you overpower your fears.
Every leader
faces fear. That’s common. How you respond to your fear will determine the
shape of your leadership. Don’t be afraid to think big, be confident in
yourself and your abilities, and empower others. When you do fear can’t win.
© 2014 Doug
Dickerson
I welcome
your feedback:
1. What
fears have held you back on your journey as a leader?
2. How can
you work to overcome them?
3. How can
you help others overcome their fears?
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