The most important thing in
communication is hearing what isn't said. - Peter
Drucker
In Reader’s
Digest some years back a story is told of a federal worker cleaning out his
office files. It was a Monday afternoon and faced with mountains of old
documents and reports, he stacked them on top of his wastebasket with a sign
reading: “Rubbish.”
The next
day, the papers were still there, so he added the words, “Please remove.” On
Wednesday, nothing had changed, and therefore a more explicit notice was used.
“This is rubbish,” it said, “I do not want it. Please remove.” Thursday
revealed the need for still stronger words: “This is rubbish, refuse, garbage,
get it out of here!” This sign had been heatedly scrawled with a red
felt-tipped marker. On Friday, the papers were still not removed. However, a
small note in pencil had been written beneath Thursday’s sign. It read: “Cannot
remove unless marked ‘trash’.
Let’s face
it, communication styles are as varied as leadership styles and striking the
right balance for leaders can be a challenge. Frustrations can mount like that
of the worker who could not get rid of the trash in his office simply because
of a communication barrier.
In his book,
Creating Magic: 10 Common Sense Leadership Strategies from a Life at Disney,
Lee Cockerell shares an insightful perspective about lines of communication. He
writes, “It’s almost always a good idea to minimize the number of layers in
your organization, so you can deal directly with as many people as possible.
Each layer through which information is filtered multiplies the inaccuracies
and distortions, making it much more likely that something minor will snowball
into a serious problem.”
A leader who
desires to be an effective communicator is dependent upon many factors not
least of which are flat lines that extend to and from as many people as
possible. Organizational layers need to be few in order for the delivery of
transparent and reciprocal information. Consider these three observations about
flat line communication.
Flat line communication connects
people.
In the book, Everyone Communicates, Few
Connect, John Maxwell states, “I believe that almost everything we become and
all that we accomplish in life are the result of our interactions with others.
If you also believe that to be true, then you know that the ability to connect
with others is one of the most important skills a person can learn.”
A challenge
within many organizations is too few channels in which information can flow.
Filtered information is information denied. And this can potentially have dire
consequences for your organization. As you learn to flat line communication
channels you will have a connection with your people that will broaden your
perspective and one your team will appreciate.
Flat line communication builds
community.
When your
team comes together on flat lines the ground is level. Community is built when
communication sources up and down the line are valued. When value is given;
value will be received.
When was the
last time you heard directly from the workers in the trenches within your
company? Do you seek out advice as generously as you give it? Community is
built through communication. Community in your organization is the result of
connected people.
Flat line communication breaks
barriers.
In his book,
Rules of Thumb, Alan M. Webber writes about the effects of border guards within
your corporate structure. His thesis is that you need to keep people around you
that aren’t afraid to speak the truth to power. He states, “Border guards in
the form of administrative assistants or executive vice presidents keep these
disagreeable people away from the boss. If you’re the leader, whether you let
them into your life-at home and at work- is a choice only you can make.”
The best job
for border guards is to open the doors of communication not close them. Flat
lines built on trust and respect will do you more good than any fear you had
otherwise. Flat lines
are your pathway to connecting with your people, building community, and
breaking barriers.
What do you
say?
© 2013 Doug
Dickerson
*This column
appears in Doug’s book, Great Leaders Wanted, and is one of many you can enjoy
when you place your order today.
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