Life is a long process of getting
used to things you started out to change. – Frank A. Clark
As the story
goes, it was on June 4, 1783 at the market square of a French village of
Annonay, not far from Paris, that a smoky bonfire on a raised platform was fed
by wet straw and old wool rages. Tethered above, straining its lines was a huge
taffeta bag 33 feet in diameter. In the presence of “a respectable assembly and
a great many other people,” and accompanied by great cheering, the balloon was
cut from its moorings and set free to rise majestically into the noon sky.
Six thousand
feet in the air it went—the first public ascent of a balloon, the first step in
the history of human flight. It came to earth several miles away in a field,
where it was promptly attacked by pitchfork-waving peasants and torn to pieces
as an instrument of evil.
From the
earliest days of man change has been a difficult proposition. We are creatures
of comfort and creatures of habit. Shake up the apple cart and you will have a
fight on your hands; especially if you are a leader. Take the workplace for
example. In a recent survey commissioned by talent management firm Plateau and
conducted by Harris Interactive, finds that 74% of workers-satisfied or not-
would consider leaving if approached with another offer. In other words, change
is always in the air – yes, even at your
office.
Steven Covey
said, “There are three constants in life; change, choice and principles.” And
as a leader how you integrate those truths is an important part of your
leadership style. Here are three insights about change that will challenge the
way you think about it and how it can help you as a leader.
The change we want –
looks outward. In leadership when we think about the changes we want
it usually has something to do with someone else. Our grumblings often center
on what someone at the office is doing; or not doing, that frustrates us.
People are not performing at the level you want, there is too much in-fighting
or office politics, performance goals are not being met, etc.
The change you want is the
frustration of your leadership. It is frustrating because it has you focused on things at
the margins that steal quality time in terms of productivity. All you know is
that you are frustrated and something
has to change. And unfortunately, creating change out of frustration tends to
lead to unhealthy choices regarding change and does not help you in the long
term.
The change we need –
looks inward. One
of the hardest things for a leader to do is to look inward with a critical eye.
The British politician Nancy Astor said, “The main dangers in this life are the
people who want to change everything, or nothing.” And so long as you want to
change everything else but remain unwilling to change yourself it will remain
an encumbrance on your leadership.
The change you need is the necessity
of your leadership.
It is when you honestly evaluate your strengths and weaknesses; your blind
spots and attitudes that inward change begins. Improvement will only happen
when you look honestly in the mirror and make the changes you need to make
before expecting them from others. But it’s when you are transparent, ask for
feedback, and demonstrate humility that you can begin to create a culture of
change in your organization. And the day you learn to let go of the things you
can’t change in other people is the day you let go of many of your frustrations
as a leader.
The change we celebrate
– looks upward. Max
Depree said, “In the end, it is important to remember that we cannot become
what we need to by remaining what we are.” In leadership the goal is not to sit
back and rest in our comfort zones. We should constantly be striving to become
what we need by embracing that which we must.
Change is a constant and we must welcome it and be open to it if we are
to grow.
The change you celebrate is the
blessing of your leadership. It is a blessing when you forget about trying to change other people
and change yourself. It is a blessing when you embrace your calling and purpose
as a leader and fulfill your destiny not because you resisted change but
because you dared to welcome it.
© 2013 Doug
Dickerson
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